trauma Archives - Lifestyle https://lifestyle.org/tag/trauma/ Mind Body Soul Wed, 02 Aug 2023 17:08:54 +0000 en hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.5 https://lifestyle.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/cropped-logo-mark-32x32.png trauma Archives - Lifestyle https://lifestyle.org/tag/trauma/ 32 32 218594145 Healthy Coping For Traumatic Events https://lifestyle.org/healthy-coping-for-traumatic-events/ Thu, 27 Jul 2023 13:30:00 +0000 https://lifestyle.org/?p=12587 Traumatic events can trigger powerful feelings like anxiety, stress, nervousness, sadness, anger, and more.  There are many kinds of trauma. It can be personal, like an assault or abuse, or a global crisis, like a natural disaster, a pandemic, or even war.  Trauma takes an emotional and mental toll. But the good news is that...

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Traumatic events can trigger powerful feelings like anxiety, stress, nervousness, sadness, anger, and more. 

There are many kinds of trauma. It can be personal, like an assault or abuse, or a global crisis, like a natural disaster, a pandemic, or even war. 

Trauma takes an emotional and mental toll. But the good news is that the symptoms tend to improve if we deal with it positively and healthily, and our emotional and mental health is restored slowly over time.

Symptoms Caused by a Traumatic Event

Most of us will face traumatic events during our lifetimes and will suffer what experts call ‘traumatic stress.’

Even if we’re not victims of a traumatic event, merely witnessing it can cause traumatic stress.

Here are some emotional symptoms of traumatic stress:

  • Disbelief and shock
  • Sadness and grief
  • Feeling jumpy and nervous
  • Anger Irritability
  • Shame or guilt
  • Helplessness

Physical symptoms include:

  • Getting flashbacks and intrusive thoughts
  • Aches and pains
  • Cold sweats
  • Increase or loss in appetite
  • Shallow, rapid breathing
  • Feeling dizzy or nauseous

Coping with a Traumatic Event

Some people address the effects of traumatic stress in productive ways, even seeking help if needed, and their symptoms improve with time. 

Others, however, develop acute stress disorder. This is when the symptoms are much more intense, and it’s difficult for them to go away on their own.

Thankfully, psychologists and medical experts have identified healthy ways to cope with the aftermath of a traumatic event.

Acknowledge Your Emotions

After going through something traumatic, ignoring or denying our emotions is tempting because we don’t want to relive the experience. 

However, avoiding your feelings is unhealthy and worsens things because you never really deal with what happened. 

Too much avoidance can be disruptive because it prolongs traumatic stress and delays healing.

You can acknowledge your feelings yourself by writing in a journal. The other option is to talk it out and find support from loved ones, peer groups, or mental health professionals.

One approach is reflective, and the other is more extroverted and involves social connections; maybe you’re the type that might benefit from doing both. Find what works for you; slowly, over time, you will feel your life and emotions getting back in the groove.

Take Care of Yourself 

Traumatic events are disruptive and wreak havoc in your life and routine, especially in the first month or two. Getting good sleep, healthy eating, and exercise can quickly become afterthoughts as you struggle to cope; all you may feel like doing is staying in bed under the covers out of harm’s way.

But the best thing you can do is gently push through this challenging time by making a conscious effort daily to get up and do right by yourself.

Studies reveal that regular physical exercise releases stress and anxiety. It also prompts the brain to release feel-good hormones that improve mood. So, why not start with something simple like taking a 15-minute walk outside?

Other self-care ideas include:

  • Eating well-balanced nutritious meals
  • Getting quality sleep each night
  • Spend time in nature
  • Practice prayer and meditation
  • Do yoga
  • Find a creative outlet, like music or art
  • Become active in a faith community

Establish a Routine

Routine creates a sense of certainty and comfort, so returning to your daily routine is essential.

Some people can get back into the swing of things after a few days, while others need several weeks. 

The important thing is to structure your days so there are set times for certain things.

Even if your work or school schedule is disrupted, you can create and maintain a new schedule to give you a feeling of security and control; you’ll feel grounded and in charge of your life.

For example, form the habit of going to bed and waking up at the same time daily. Getting the hang of it may take a few days, but getting quality sleep each night will make you feel less anxious and speed up the healing process.

Creating a schedule for your meals, workouts, and me-time also pays off. 

Creating structure gives you a sense of control that help minimize feelings of helplessness and anxiety.

Final Thoughts

Having a strong emotional response to trauma is normal. The encouraging news is there are healthy coping mechanisms to get you through a traumatic event.

Remember to take one day at a time. And give yourself the love and empathy you need to heal and recover. 

Then, as the days pass, your symptoms will begin improving, and you’ll start feeling comfortable with life again and like your usual self. So show yourself grace and compassion, and be patient with your progress no matter how slowly you think things are going because life does get better; healing comes, and your heart will smile again. 

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Surviving A Shooting https://lifestyle.org/episode/surviving-a-shooting/ Fri, 12 Jun 2020 04:36:31 +0000 https://lifestyle.org/episode/surviving-a-shooting/ Today, we're talking about mass shootings. Our first guest, Debbi Tamietti, survived a mass shooting when a gunman opened fire on unsuspecting concert goers in Las Vegas at the Route 91 Harvest music festival. She shares her story and the tools that she learned from David Kessler to deal with that trauma. Also joining us is best-selling author, and one of the world's foremost experts on healing and loss, David Kessler.  He shares how his experience from a mass shooting as a 13-year-old shaped his life and the healing mechanisms he recommends when you are a victim of trauma. Free Offer: CareNotes "Responding to Life's Challenges with Resilience and Strength" Offer Code: LIFE-T-F-401 Offer Description: Resilience doesn’t simply mean “bouncing back” from a trauma, loss, or disaster. It also means being proactive whenever possible and planning for or preventing such circumstances. CareNotes author Mary Kendrick Moore helps readers call upon the strengths and abilities needed to respond helpfully and hopefully to life’s challenges in sections titled: “Acknowledge your loss and fear,” “Believe in your ability to foster resilience,” “Exercise your brain,” and “Find support among those you trust.”

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Today, we’re talking about mass shootings. Our first guest, Debbi Tamietti, survived a mass shooting when a gunman opened fire on unsuspecting concert goers in Las Vegas at the Route 91 Harvest music festival. She shares her story and the tools that she learned from David Kessler to deal with that trauma. Also joining us is best-selling author, and one of the world’s foremost experts on healing and loss, David Kessler.  He shares how his experience from a mass shooting as a 13-year-old shaped his life and the healing mechanisms he recommends when you are a victim of trauma. Free Offer: CareNotes “Responding to Life’s Challenges with Resilience and Strength” Offer Code: LIFE-T-F-401 Offer Description: Resilience doesn’t simply mean “bouncing back” from a trauma, loss, or disaster. It also means being proactive whenever possible and planning for or preventing such circumstances. CareNotes author Mary Kendrick Moore helps readers call upon the strengths and abilities needed to respond helpfully and hopefully to life’s challenges in sections titled: “Acknowledge your loss and fear,” “Believe in your ability to foster resilience,” “Exercise your brain,” and “Find support among those you trust.”

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Media Trauma https://lifestyle.org/episode/media-trauma/ Fri, 26 Apr 2019 07:20:05 +0000 https://lifestyle.org/episode/media-trauma/ The pressure is on for today's parents to understand the barrage of media their kids are confronted with every minute of every day. We're discussing social media today and the media trauma that is experienced depending on how much time is spent on entertainment/media on a personal device. Jenny Black is a licensed marriage and family therapist from Tennessee. She's joined by her husband, Adam, and their two children, Brandon and Avery, who were exhibiting signs of media trauma. They are Co-Founders of Media Trauma Care a volunteer group of professionals dedicated to bring awareness and resources to care for those impacted by media trauma. Also weighing in on how dangerous media trauma can be is CNN's technology contributor, Lori H. Schwartz, who was dubbed by Variety as one of 30 executives shaping the evolution of technology. She also is on the Board of Governors for the Interactive Media Peer Group for the Television Academy.   Free Offer: Digital book by Jenny Black, INNER TECHNOLOGY How to be Human in a Digital World Offer Description: Digital book by Jenny Black, INNER TECHNOLOGY How to be Human in a Digital World CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD

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The pressure is on for today’s parents to understand the barrage of media their kids are confronted with every minute of every day. We’re discussing social media today and the media trauma that is experienced depending on how much time is spent on entertainment/media on a personal device. Jenny Black is a licensed marriage and family therapist from Tennessee. She’s joined by her husband, Adam, and their two children, Brandon and Avery, who were exhibiting signs of media trauma. They are Co-Founders of Media Trauma Care a volunteer group of professionals dedicated to bring awareness and resources to care for those impacted by media trauma. Also weighing in on how dangerous media trauma can be is CNN’s technology contributor, Lori H. Schwartz, who was dubbed by Variety as one of 30 executives shaping the evolution of technology. She also is on the Board of Governors for the Interactive Media Peer Group for the Television Academy.   Free Offer: Digital book by Jenny Black, INNER TECHNOLOGY How to be Human in a Digital World Offer Description: Digital book by Jenny Black, INNER TECHNOLOGY How to be Human in a Digital World CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD

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Serve & Protect https://lifestyle.org/episode/serve-protect/ Mon, 27 Mar 2017 22:46:20 +0000 https://lifestyle.org/episode/serve-protect/ We’re used to hearing about Post Traumatic Stress Disorder when talking about victims of rape or military veterans suffering from trauma from battle. But there is another group that regularly experiences it. Rob Michaels, the founder and CEO of Serve & Protect is here today to explain why many first respondents are dealing with PTSD. Also, joining us today is Simon Chan, a veteran that survived a traumatic incident who is now a trauma therapist. Free Offer: (1) CareNotes pamphlet "Coping With Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder" (2) Web article "First Responders PTSD Symptoms" Offer Code: COPING-T-F-401 Offer Description: (1) Though this CareNote is written by the Staff of the National Military Family Association, the information contained within can be of help to anyone who suffers from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Whether due to the experiences of combat, abuse, loss, or other trauma, PTSD can disrupt a person’s livelihood, relationships, and general well-being. This CareNote offers both the sufferer and his or her loved ones a thorough overview of the disorder and provides proven resources and avenues for getting help. (www.onecaringplace.com) (2) Web article from www.goodtherapy.org/blog/when-helping-hurts-traumas-effects-on-first-responders  

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We’re used to hearing about Post Traumatic Stress Disorder when talking about victims of rape or military veterans suffering from trauma from battle. But there is another group that regularly experiences it. Rob Michaels, the founder and CEO of Serve & Protect is here today to explain why many first respondents are dealing with PTSD. Also, joining us today is Simon Chan, a veteran that survived a traumatic incident who is now a trauma therapist. Free Offer: (1) CareNotes pamphlet “Coping With Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder” (2) Web article “First Responders PTSD Symptoms” Offer Code: COPING-T-F-401 Offer Description: (1) Though this CareNote is written by the Staff of the National Military Family Association, the information contained within can be of help to anyone who suffers from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Whether due to the experiences of combat, abuse, loss, or other trauma, PTSD can disrupt a person’s livelihood, relationships, and general well-being. This CareNote offers both the sufferer and his or her loved ones a thorough overview of the disorder and provides proven resources and avenues for getting help. (www.onecaringplace.com) (2) Web article from www.goodtherapy.org/blog/when-helping-hurts-traumas-effects-on-first-responders  

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